The very first step addressing the main problem is to get past the idea that only blatant racists, misogynists, and homophobes are biased. If you are able to think, you are biased. Thats it
Losing control of ourselves, for reasons we hardly we are able to comprehend , well that is quite depressing. Plus there is the influence our unconsciousness holds over figures, bank accounts and surroundings aren’t very forgiving. Not after the sixth offense, anyway.
Psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud started the believe that behavior and personality were derived from the constant and unique interaction of conflicting psychological forces that operate at three different levels of awareness: the preconscious, conscious, and unconscious.1 .
We often believe people are as they are, nothing could be further from the truth.Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder–and so is everything else. Expectations, assumptions, and memories are Impressions just as they are about the perceived.
Problematic it becomes when over time, this lack of self-control becomes lamentably disastrous and ruins our relationships, our success and our self-esteem.
Well you are; as our unconscious addictions are also our weaker points, and can also be easily abused by not-very-well-meaning people and organizations. Advertisers like to manipulate us using our inadequacy feelings. Unsuitable suitors use our needs of attention and appreciation to gain our devotion. Our fears is amplified by politicians to get our support.
When we overcome our addictions, we don’t ruin our relationships, our health and our future any longer. Instead, we are able to achieve our goals, and become much happier, many underlying issues are gone.