People are often very attached to the status quo. Decisions tend to involve the prospect of change, which many people find difficult.
When you struggle to make decisions or are you going back over decisions you have made, constantly doubting that you made the right choice?
Poor decision-making skills do haunt your career, and most likely ending up believing we are weak and ineffective. It does not have to be that way. There are methods through that madness. There are several methods of making decisions.
Whatever you do try to decide in a way where no one will be hurt, if the choice is that you get hurt when taking the wrong decision it depends how much you like the other person.
Desicion taking becomes easier the older you grow and the more life experience you have. Staying in your job fpr 30 Years gives you limited life experience versus someone who changed 5 jobs in 20 years.
Identify the problem and decide if it is a problem. Emotinal people get offended much more than less emotional people. Friends of mine were offended because I did not great back at a honk from a car i did not know, with darkened windows how could I recognize anyone?